Gary Is Home!

Almost exactly two years after Gary was struck by a mysterious illness that left him paralyzed, he has finally returned home to Port Carling! 

Those of you who have been following this blog know that this has been a long and difficult journey, one that will continue now that Gary is back in Muskoka. Returning home required a lot of preparation: renovations to make the house accessible, the installation of a backup generator to power Gary's ventilator, extensive training for family members, and the hiring and training of a great medical support team. It goes without saying that the support of the Muskoka community was instrumental in making all of this possible.  

Throughout the past two years Gary has remained closely involved with the running of Muskoka Chautauqua, and now that he's back at HQ he's right in the thick of things. With the help of an eye-operated computer he is able to work alongside Gayle and Chautauqua staff in the office. Given that we're just about to hit Chautauqua's busiest season, everyone is overjoyed to have Gary back home!

Chautauqua's signature culinary fundraiser event, Flavours of Muskoka Chautauqua, is happening this Sunday, June 28th at J.W. Marriott the Rosseau Resort & Spa in Minett. It features delicious selections from top local chefs and restaurants, as well as Ontario wineries, breweries and distilleries. Tickets are $75, and funds raised go to support Chautauqua's Kaleidoscope Arts in Education programs. 

Gary will be attending Flavours on Sunday, so if you haven't seen him yet make sure to stop in and say hi. Tickets can be purchased online at https://www.muskokachautauqua.com/unlimited-sidebars/flavours-of-muskoka/, or by calling the office at 705-765-1048. 

Visit With Gary

On Saturday, Feb 21st I had the pleasure of visiting with Gary and I'm floored by his enthusiasm for life and his commitment to his recovery! 

I personally witnessed Gary's tremendous progress, including no longer requiring assistance when speaking and his ability to remain upright for longer periods of time. He was enjoying life - free from tubes, monitoring equipment and the activity of constant oversight. 

Gary has made huge strides and I know he will continue to do so. Throughout our visit he asked many questions and spoke of his eagerness to return to Port Carling and the care he will require when that occurs. 

I left our visit feeling inspired by Gary's resilience and positive attitude on life! Life is truly beautiful and a gift and Gary's outlook exemplifies this! 

- Daniel Bradbury

Getting Close... Home Care Team Needed

Gayle and Gary are beginning to put together the team that will enable Gary to finally come home!

They are looking for several energetic and dedicated personal care workers to be part of a home care team. Team members are supported and encouraged to be creative, innovative and collaborative in their approach to deliver safe, integrated health care. Specialized and professional training will be provided. Start date April 2015

Responsibilities

• Provides personal care to the client
• Utilizes proper body mechanics and transfer techniques in order to carry out safe lifts and/or transfers
• Provides assistance with a variety of household tasks
• Prepares nutritious, varied and economical meals and snacks and uses proper food preparation, storage and hygiene practices
• Promotes a safe environment for both the client and worker

Qualifications and Position Requirements

• Experience working with the vulnerable population, in a home setting
• Available for non-traditional hours, including nights and weekends
• Access to transportation/vehicle
• RPN, RN, PSW, HCA Certificate an asset but not a requirement

Compensation

• Flexible hours and diverse assignments
• Competitive wages

How to Apply

Please send resume and cover letter to MCI, Box 172, Port Carling ON POB IJO or email mci@artsinmuskoka.com.

Holidays at West Park

Gary's holidays at West Park were full of family, activities and a move to Gage House, a part of West Park where people live in a less institutional, more natural home environment.

Merry Christmas!

Gayle's family visiting Gary

Leading the carol sing

Yes, they even had reindeer!

Happy New Year! Gary with his mom, his sister Linda and Gayle

At The Gage: room enough for everyone to paint!

A New Opportunity

Gary on his birthday at West Park

It has already been a long, and at times arduous, journey for Gary but he’s a very strong and tenacious individual who has weathered this life storm in a most admirable way. If you haven’t been keeping track, he’s been at Bracebridge Hospital, Toronto’s St. Mike’s, Barrie’s Royal Victoria ICU, Toronto’s East General, back to Barrie ICU and then to West Park. Things may be changing once again for Gary. Just when we were beginning to worry about how we were going to get the renovations completed and the nursing/personal assistant staff in place by the end of his West Park program (which would have terminated at the end of November), West Park began a discussion with us about another possible option.

Within the West Park complex there is a facility called Gage House. Gage House is a place where people live with other folks in a less institutional, more natural home environment. Residents may share a room or co-pay and have their own room. There is a living/dining/kitchen area where residents eat their meals at the table together, socialize and most importantly there is a nursing station right outside of the residence if someone needs assistance. If accepted to the program Gary could be in this facility for an undetermined length of time. We all welcome this opportunity and are hoping Gary gets this chance to take yet one more step toward greater independence.

Because there is still much to do to ready Gary and Gayle’s home for his return this extra time would take the pressure off when it comes to getting everything in place. The generator has been installed thanks to a generous donation, so there will be an uninterrupted source of hydro to run his ventilator constantly. But there are still many things to be done and as usual many of them are related to money. Gayle has applied to all the agencies and she and Gary are working with the various government agencies to overcome these obstacles.

The other issues is finding the nursing/personal assistant staff we need to augment the care Gary will get from his family. If Gary lived in Toronto there would be no problem getting help but it seems there is a serious shortage of nursing staff in Muskoka. Please, if you are an interested retired nurse, or a new nurse who needs to gain some experience, consider giving Gayle a call to let her know you might be interested.

We would be remiss if we didn’t sing the praises of West Park and what they have done for Gary. This facility is absolutely amazing. Rather than a place where paralyzed people on vents sit around and feel sorry for themselves, it is a place that helps them learn how to live again. The staff are wonderful, caring folk who obviously love what they’re doing. The facility brings in clowns, drummers, speakers, Swiss Chalet, Mandarin, etc. They have already trained Gayle, Gary’s three sisters and two friends on how to suction him and drive the wheelchair if he gets tired. As if this isn’t enough West Park has generously offered to train the nurses and personal assistants who will be working with Gary when he returns home. How great is that?

Please keep your fingers crossed for us.

- Judy

MuskokaRegion.com article details challenges in Gary's quest to return home

A recent article on MuskokaRegion.com details the challenges facing Gary and his family as he works towards returning home to Muskoka. He is currently at West Park Healthcare Centre in Toronto and is halfway through the Transition to Home program. He's due to be released in time to make it home for Christmas, but a lack of available nursing care in Muskoka may make that an impossibility.



Gary's partner Gayle and his sisters have been trained at West Park and will be Gary's primary caregivers once he returns home, but they also need support from nurses and PSWs. Click the link below to read the article by our friends at Metroland Media:



Froude's dream for the holiday may not bring him home

More Progress!

If you've been watching the blog you will have noticed an absence of new information for a while. That's because Louis completed his contract at Arts in Muskoka and is now pursuing other avenues. We thank him so much for managing the blog and for being such a great addition to the team. He was truly a blessing. All the best in your new adventure Louis. We miss you.

When you last heard from us Gary had just received his wheelchair. That seems like a hundred years ago now and he's become quite the expert at driving his chair using only his right thumb. We were a little concerned about his altercation with a door casing but we're sure that by the time he gets home he'll be doing wheelies. 

Speaking of driving, he actually drove himself down to the hairdressers and is shown here with the hairdresser and his Occupational Therapist Emelda. Sporting his new haircut and shave, he later took his first trip to the cafeteria for a cappuccino.

It's not unusual to see Gary, Gayle and Rafi outside on the grounds of Westpark taking in the great outdoors. They recently attended the Westpark Fall Fair and Gary was in his element - surrounded by people to talk with. This chair has given Gary some hard-earned independence and the ability to see something more than three walls and a curtain.

Gary's days at Westpark are busy. He gets out of bed and into the chair, usually has some sort of therapy, goes off the respirator (currently twice a day for two hours each time), visits with family and friends and talks with a myriad of folks who are working hard to get him prepared to go home. In addition to the chair Gary has been working hard at strengthening his body. Part of that effort is spending time on the tilt table which, although he's strapped in, allows him to put weight on his feet again. He loves doing this and it is strengthening his body.

He's also adding some communications tools to his agenda so this will allow him further independence.

Our thanks go out to all the folk who are rooting for Gary. Your questions about his health, your good wishes, your cards, your donations and your prayers are most appreciated by Gary, Gayle and family. You have been such a comfort.

Thanks also to Jen Morgan Anderson who is now managing the blog.

- Judy

45th Parallel Painters Presents New Works and Fundraiser for Gary Froude

The 45th Parallel Painters will be back at the Muskoka Place Gallery for an excellent show of new works! The exhibition will be on view from Friday, October 10, 2014 - Thursday, November 6, 2014. The gallery hours are Monday - Friday, 10 am - 5pm and Saturdays, 11 am - 3pm.

Join us for a reception on Sunday, October 19, 2014 from 2pm - 4pm at Muskoka Place Gallery, 1182 Foreman Rd., Port Carling, ON. Meet the artists, enjoy the art, indulge in some delights and have a chance to win a special prize! A portion of the sales from the exhibition will be donated to the Bring Gary Home fund, a fund dedicated to the support of Gary Froude.

The artists - Krysia Bower, Anne Clement, Betty Dawson, Gayle Dempsey, Donna McLaren, Marie St. Germain, Susan Ware and Margaret Richards - have been creating art together for several years. Five years ago they adopted their name from the geography in which they live and paint. They have a strong sense of the beauty of the natural world and enjoy sharing their works with others. 45 Parallel Painters have shown their works in galleries across Muskoka and Kitchener/Waterloo.

To see more of their story and view their works, check out www.45thparallelpainters.com

Victoria Banks Concert in Port Carling

Victoria Banks, Port Carling’s hometown country star, is playing a concert at the Port Carling Community Centre this Friday, October 10^th at 8:00 pm. Tickets are $25 and are available at The Apothocary Shop and Aunt Doodie’s Antiques in Port Carling, online here, at the door, or call Linda Dodington at 705-765-3937. She will be providing an opportunity for people to donate to the Bring Gary Home fund. 

Gary Froude is half way through the West Park Transition to Home Ventilation Program in Toronto and is scheduled to be home for Christmas!

New wheels

Gary's been making good progress at the West Park Healthcare Centre in Toronto. Earlier this week, we got a sneak peek at the wheelchair that will help bring him home:

His recovery continues at a remarkable pace. Gary even got into the summer swing of things by downing a bit of ice cream.

We're hoping to have have him back here real soon. Only one major obstacle still remains - getting a generator to power the equipment Gary will need once he's back here in Muskoka. Other than that, we're full steam ahead at bringing him home!

What's Up gives a shoutout to Gary

Our good friends at our award-winning local newspaper, What's Up Muskoka, took the time this week to share some kind words about our friend Gary.

This month, we are heading into ChautauquaFest, a new, 10-day celebration of arts and culture that runs from Aug.14-23. The festival is the culmination of nearly 20 years worth of hard work that Gary and his wife Gayle have put into Muskoka Chautauqua, its brand, its programs and its vision.

Unfortunately, while Gary is on the way home, it appears he will not be in Muskoka for this monumental occasion. This massive festival features over 20 events throughout Muskoka that encompasses the visual, literary, dramatic and musical arts - the essence of what Muskoka Chautauqua is all about.

Gary will be following along with this festival from his hospital bed. He is hoping his community will be having a great time on his behalf at this inaugural festival while he is away.

We're on track to bring Gary home, but a generator is still the major obstacle standing in the way of his return. Otherwise, the journey home continues at full speed.

Stay tuned friends!

Another encouraging step closer to home

More encouraging news this week for Gary. We've just learned that Gary has been accepted to a ventilator program at the West Park Healthcare Centre in Toronto!

What this means is that now Gayle and volunteers will receive training on the ventilation system that will ultimately allow Gary to come home. The training is expected to begin soon. We've already received some interest from some locals, which include a volunteer firefighter from our local Port Carling station. However, we're always seeking the company of more friends, and are still taking in volunteers for this role.

The biggest challenge for now still remains in getting a generator to power the equipment for Gary once he comes home. But one way or another, we're hoping to be able to bring Gary home very, very soon.

Stay tuned!

The journey home begins

Plans are afoot for finally getting Gary home.

Gayle and Gary have applied to a ventilator training program at the West Park Healthcare Centre in Toronto, and are now in the process of looking for a generator. The hope is that once a power source is secured, it can be installed at Gary's home in Port Carling. Friends and family will then be able to help care for Gary as he continues his recovery here in Muskoka.

Though this game plan has been struck, Gary's exact path home remains unclear at the moment. Gayle and Gary are looking for anyone in the community who is interested in taking the ventilator training, and for anyone who can assist in the process of acquiring a generator. If you think you can help, give us a call at 705-765-1048.

18 years and still going strong

Gary had good reason to be happy yesterday - he celebrated 18 years with Gayle at his side! Our thoughts and prayers are with Gary as he continues to recover. We're hoping that by the time he celebrates 19 years, he'll be right back here in Muskoka where he belongs.

Gary switches gears in recovery

Gary continues to pick up speed in his recovery, switching gears into the next phase of his rehab this past weekend.

A few days ago, Gary started using a new arm attachment for his cycling apparatus. It was only about half a year ago that he started using the same cycling machine with his legs. He continues to regain more and more of his fine motor skills each month, and his recovery overall is continuing at a steady pace. Staff here at Muskoka Chautauqua continue to be amazed at the volume of well wishes for Gary that flood through the phone lines every day. Though Gary's been away from Muskoka for well over a year now, Muskoka certainly has not forgotten him!

Flavours moves forward key ingredient in spirit

Though he's not physically in the mix this year, Gary continues to shape the taste of our annual culinary event - Flavours of Muskoka Chatuauqua - from areas afar.

It was around this time last year that Gary first fell ill, and though his recovery has taken him into southern Ontario, he continues to work with our staff and organizing committee to pin down every last detail of the gourmet food event from his hospital bed.

Flavours has always been a very special event for Gary, and though he's unable to attend this year, he's hoping the event will continue to bring rich flavour to the region for years to come.

A big Muskoka Chautauqua thank you goes out this week from us to the wonderful staff at our local newspaper What's Up Muskoka. This week's edition features an article detailing Gary's extensive involvement with Flavours over the years. Their talented staff covered the progress of Gary's recovery from the get go, and we're all deeply grateful for their ongoing support.

For tickets to Flavours, please visit www.muskokachautauqua.ca, or call 705-765-1048. This year, the event takes place on Sunday, June 15, from 6 p.m. to 9 p.m., at the JW Marriott The Rosseau Resort and Spa in Minett.

Barrie's newest bookworm

Gary's adventurous spirit took off today with a short visit to Royal Victoria Hospital's library.

Sporting a bright smile and looking highly rejuvenated, Gary took out a copy of The Lonesome Gods by Louis D'Amour. The New York Times bestseller involves a young adventurer stranded in the desert, who is eventually rescued from his fate by outlaws, and is then cared for by a native group.

All dressed up for a walk in the sunshine

Gary's been just as excited as the rest of us are to breathe in some of that warm spring air. With some help from the wonderful staff at Royal Victoria Hospital in Barrie, he got all suited up and took a quick spin around the block last week. 

Gary moves back to Barrie

It's one small step closer to home for Gary.

With Gayle at his side, Gary made the move back to Barrie's Royal Victoria Hospital yesterday after a 12-week stint on a respiratory program at Toronto East General Hospital. The staff in Barrie missed him dearly since he left for Toronto in January, and have been following along with his progress all this time. 

When he came back, they took great efforts to make sure his return to Barrie was memorable. Gary was over the moon when he saw what awaited him:

Gary's still not completely off the ventilator yet. He has, however, been able to breathe on his own for up to six hours - a full quarter of a day - without the machine. As seen below, the eating test he recently passed allowed him enjoy a hearty meal that included chocolate milk, beef brisket and chocolate cake.

The move to Barrie brings him much closer to his friends in Muskoka, and to Gayle and the Muskoka Chautauqua staff. Everyone at Muskoka Chautauqua is hopeful his next stop will be right back here in Muskoka, where he belongs. 

One step closer to home

Gary's preparing for his next big move, which will bring him one hour closer to home.

The timing of the move has yet to be determined, but staff at the Toronto East General Hospital are already getting ready to move Gary back to Royal Victoria Hospital in Barrie. In the 12 weeks he's been in a respiratory program down in Toronto, Gary's show remarkable improvement, doing up to six hours at a time off the breathing apparatus. His recovery is now slated to continue in Barrie.

In the past few days, things continued to look good for Gary as he passed yet another swallowing test, and was healthy enough to take more trips outside to take in the warm spring weather. We're told that the hospital staff at Barrie, who have been following his progress steadily even after he initially left, are excited to see him return.

Stay tuned as we follow the next step of Gary's journey back home to Muskoka.